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What Not to Do in Japan: The Etiquette Japanese People Mind

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Fourteen roundups, 35,675 comments between them, and the thing English guides get wrong is the reason, not the rule. Japanese commenters are no longer wearing masks for COVID: the top comment (8,684 likes) says the mask now hides a face its owner dislikes, and the runner-up (7,075 likes) says taking it off has become the hassle. Blowing your nose at the table is still bad manners, but 353 likes go to a commenter who finds the sniffling worse. Slurping noodles is not the rude part: in the noodle-harassment row the top reply (82 likes) says anyone bothered by it shouldn't eat out, and the complaints that land are about noisy chewing and needlessly loud slurps. Perfume is not rude, a heavy spray is: 1,079 likes say a light touch is just right for Japan. A bad chopstick grip does get noticed among Japanese adults, but the top comment in that debate (2,993 likes) saves its scorn for refusing to fix it and blaming your parents. The phone-call ban on trains stands because riders want it to stand (1,260 likes). Makeup on the train is judged by what can land on the next rider: a leading answer (40,807 likes) asks people to stop at lipstick, and the anger is saved for powder and brushes. The escalator side is genuinely split by region. And the stroller question splits in two: the official rule has said since 2014 that you need not fold it, while 525 likes say a Tokyo rush-hour train has no room to give up in the first place. Kids are welcome in most restaurants: under a shop sign turning away children with no discipline, the top reply (7,400 likes) says the anger is at parents who leave a crying child to it, not at the child. Sharing food is fine once everyone has ordered their own bowl: when a stranger scolded a couple for splitting a ramen refill, the top reply (8,048 likes) said only that they should have asked the staff on the spot. Read each rule as a habit with a reason behind it, and you will break fewer of them.

14 roundups · 14 source videos · 244 comments translated · 297,141 likes on them

The videos hold 35,675 comments in total; we read the top 2,431 of each and translated the ones that shaped the consensus.

Tracking since Jul 17, 2026 · Updated Oct 13, 2026

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What Japanese people recommend instead

  • If there aren't many people around, I think a little is OK. Honestly, I don't want people seeing my face while I'm doing makeup anyway lol

    人がそんなに居ないんだったらちょっとくらいならしてもいいかな。 てかそもそも人に自分がメイクしてる時の顔を見られたくないw

    — @UoxoU123,876 likes

    From: "Stop at Lipstick": Is It Rude to Do Your Makeup on the Train in Japan? Japanese Commuters Draw the Line at Powder

  • If someone on the sidelines says something, just ask the staff.

    外野が何か言ってきたら店員に聞けばいい

    — @さくれついもだんご1,040 likes

    From: Can You Share Food at a Japanese Restaurant? "Should Have Asked the Staff Right There": Japanese Diners on Splitting a Ramen Refill

  • Once my kid's tantrums nearly made me late for work and I ran out bare-faced. My job doesn't allow no makeup, so I had no choice, and apologizing over and over in my head, I did a full face in my seat (a two-person seat with only me in it, so nobody next to me). I used to be in the "makeup on the train, really?" camp too, but now I think some people may have no other option. If they do it quietly in a corner so they don't bother anyone, please let it go...

    子どものイヤイヤで仕事遅刻しそうになってすっぴんで飛び出た時 仕事上すっぴんNGの仕事だからどうしようもなくて ごめんなさい…ごめんなさい‥と心の中で謝りながら電車の席(二人がけの席で私だけ座ってたから隣には人いない)でフルメイクした事ある。 私も電車でメイクするのどうなの?と思う派だったけど、やむを得ない事情がある人もいるのかも…と思うようになった。 人に迷惑かけないように隅っこでこっそりとかだったら許してあげてほしい…

    — @るか-g1x856 likes

    From: "Stop at Lipstick": Is It Rude to Do Your Makeup on the Train in Japan? Japanese Commuters Draw the Line at Powder

  • If there's obviously nobody around I don't wear one, but the moment I'm out where people are, on it goes.

    明らかに人いなけりゃマスクしないけど人がいるところに出たらマスクはしちゃうね

    — @覚悟の準備をしておいて下さい500 likes

    From: Why Do Japanese People Still Wear Masks? "Putting It On Was Never the Effort — Taking It Off Is": 11,939 Comments on Japan's Mask Habit

  • In junior high my grandfather saw how I held my chopsticks and was shocked! He made me practice moving beans onto another plate while holding my chopsticks properly. He was usually a gentle grandpa, but he told me a girl can get by if she's not great at studying, but if her manners are sloppy she'll never get married, and I practiced picking up beans in tears. Now I'm grateful to him.

    中学生の時私の箸の持ち方を見て祖父はビックリ! 正しく箸を持った状態で豆を違うお皿に移動させる練習を強制的にさせられました。 いつもは優しい祖父でしたが 女性は少しお勉強ができなくても大丈夫だが、所作が汚いとお嫁にいけないと言われ、泣きながら豆を摘む練習をしました。 今では祖父に感謝しています。

    — @take-od9um347 likes

    From: Chopstick Etiquette in Japan: Do Japanese People Really Notice How You Hold Them?

  • When I really had to do my makeup, I used to ride the Green Car. Brings back memories. These days I go anywhere bare-faced.

    どうしても化粧したいときグリーン車乗ってたな、懐かしい 今はすっぴんでどこまでも行ける

    — @Riley_o232i286 likes

    From: "Stop at Lipstick": Is It Rude to Do Your Makeup on the Train in Japan? Japanese Commuters Draw the Line at Powder

Questions the roundups answer

Every roundup about Japan Etiquette (What Japanese People Actually Do)

FAQ

Is it rude to wear sunglasses in Japan?
Not rude, just uncommon, and Japanese commenters give ordinary reasons: sunglasses hide where you are looking, most people are not outdoors long enough to need them, and lightly tinted lenses are the compromise drivers actually use. Nobody in the threads treats a tourist in sunglasses as offensive.
Can I talk on the phone on a train in Japan?
Keep it to a few seconds. The consensus in the thread is that the no-calls norm survives because riders want it (the top comment, 1,260 likes, says exactly that), and the polite move everyone praises is answering quietly with "I am on the train, I will call you back" and hanging up.
Where do these come from?
From the comment sections of Japanese YouTube videos — food crawls, hidden-gem tours, honest reviews. We quote real comments only, show the actual like counts at the time of collection, and link back to the source video.
How accurate are the translations?
Each quote keeps the original Japanese alongside the English. We adapt slang so it reads naturally, but we never change the meaning or invent comments.

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